Sunday, August 24, 2008


This is more common among men,infact is issues for men and many are suffering from these today.

By premature ejaculation,it means that man spills his semen either before he penetrates the vagina,before he penetrates fully or too soon after penetration.

When premature ejaculation happens frequently and the man makes little effort to gain control, it can cause his woman more suffering. It may appear that he treats her as a mere plaything to satisfy his needs. He is ignoring her personhood, her need to reach the mountain-top just as he did, and to be one with him in these as in other things.

Very often the root cause of all these things is not a lack of love, but the ignorance of many men about the sexual needs of their woman. Side by side with that is the woman"s own reluctance to talk about it. They are not accustomed to communicating with each other at that level.

The woman begins to feel rejected, she sees no sign of love. She may even worry about infidelity, although more often her doubts are quite unjustified. To overcome this very real suffering in his woman, it is essential that the man should not ignore the fact that he has reach the climax too soon. Instead they should talk together about what has happed, as two people who love each other and want to understand and help one another.
But there are many occasions when a man cannot avoid premature ejaculation. Women sometimes forget this. They need to realise that a man can also suffer when it happens. It may be the result of prolonged abstinence, some kind of disposition, or his inexperience and youth. The love of an understanding woman can do so much to help, and again their sense of humour lightens the situation for both of them. john njikanma

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